Friday, May 18, 2012

Akiva is 8!!!


Akiva turned 8 last week - his English birthday on Friday and his Hebrew birthday on Sunday.  What does he love more than anything - more than toys or special food?  He loves to be outside, so Shifra planned a destination birthday.  We drove to a wadi (river bed) just north of Jerusalem, Ein Prat - where we hiked and dunked in the pools that gather along the river.  This river is created by waters in the northern mountains that go underground and then happily spring up near us.  So yes, the water was cold, but refreshing.
 
The birthday boy!
Shifra's younger brother Shlomo and his wife Noam and baby Malachi joined us for the day.  And a good thing too, because the Berkus family can no longer fit in one car. 
Here's a guy cliff climbing.  I don't know who that is and we didn't try this - I added it for the view of the cliff.
The pool we liked the most had several different depths - and lots of fish!  The kids had a great time feeding them.  When I stood still, they would come up and nibble my toes.  Gotta love it!
Saul in a deeper end.  Right behind him were falls coming over large boulders.  It really hits all your senses - touch, smell, hearing and sight.  Akiva was in heaven, as actually, we all were.
Mom with the boys in the water.  She was sitting on a rock that was a few inches under water - very cooling.
The birthday boy drying off and warming up for a minute.  Kids being kids will stay in the water until they are turning blue, so periodically they have to be told to come out and get warm.
This was the most amazing event of the day.  Yehuda so loved the water that he actually fell asleep partially submerged - like a return to the womb, albeit a tad cooler I would imagine. 
Meira also had a great time.  Unlike the ocean, she liked this water.  It didn't move by itself or make big noises.  And she was so proud to be hiking - the first time she didn't have to stay behind.
A little view of the rocky hills above the water.  There is an ancient monastery built into the rocks above the river, and I hiked up there, but it was locked.
Ariella is like a mountain goat.  For a city girl, she is pretty adept at this - and likes to do it barefoot - better traction.
Of course, Shifra packed a big lunch for everyone.  She even brought a birthday cake - cute, but I didn't get a good photo.  Everything tastes so much better outside. 
Saul and Shiff with their respective mouths full!
Shlomo and Noam wanted a family picture, but I don't think this is what they had in mind.  Noam is a voracious reader and at one point, stretched out in the sun with her book - the epitome of relaxation. That reminds me of Josh who also have an enviable talent of being able to read anywhere anytime.   I hope you can see the size of their baby here.  Malachi is the same age as Hoody and probably weighs 3 times as much!  He's the only Green from the Rabbi's family so far.  The three sisters have 12 kids between them, but they all have other last names.
Hoody eating rocks from the river.  He was just totally happy the whole day.  His diaper weighed a ton and probably soaked up a small pool.
The boys. 
A view from the hike on the way back.  You can see from the brown grasses how dry the hills are outside of the river. 
Everyone had to help carry their equipment from where we could stop the cars into the Old City.  Of course, Ariella carried the biggest car seat.
The end of a beautiful day.  We are all so energized from these trips into nature, we should put one on the calendar at least monthly.  Walking out of the park, we were talking about what a wonderful day it was.  Akiva said it wasn't wonderful anymore, because now we had to go back!  I remember when we went to Ein Gedi, he said he wanted to live there.  It's amazing that these kids who live in a stone city are so tuned in to being in the wilderness and so love it.  And I love to see them being so happy.  Let's do it again soon! 
Shabbat Shalom,
Rina

Friday, May 4, 2012

Sisterhood in Jerusalem

Yesterday was a gorgeous day - especially for raising money for cancer cures.  I joined the walk in honor of some close friends who are survivors, and in memory of a few who passed away.  It was mostly a women's walk, so had the added advantage of creating that wonderful feeling of solidarity that we all know as Sisterhood.  Here is my good buddy and one of my walking partner's, Linda Marcus.  She signed up at least a month in advance (unlike me) and was one of the top fundraisers. 
And Shifra also came!  What a treat to spend several hours in the sun together!
 And Hoodie!  Of course, Yehuda still goes everywhere Mom goes - and was tolerating being decorated in pink.


Shifra's aunt, Shulamit also joined us.  We were a foursome among literally thousands of women all marching for the same cause.  Having Shulamit was extra special - she splits her time between Israel and California, and doesn't live in the Old City, so we don't get to see her so often.  
I love these photos of her with Hoodie - I think they look alike, which is pretty incredible since Shulamit is related by marraige, so they don't share any genes.

The Lip.  He's delicious when that lower lip comes out.  You just have to squeeze him!


 One of the amazing things about the walk was the diversity.  There were huge groups of Beduin, Druze, Arabs, Christians and Jews of every persuasion.  I don't know what these ladies with the white scarves and unbrellas are, but I liked the look.
The mayor, Nir Barkat addressed the crowd - we just happened to be standing right in front.  He has brought a number of events to Jerusalem to make it a more cosmopolitan city, with mixed reviews - but this was definitely a positive one.  The is the 2nd year this international walk for cancer cures has been here.

 
And yes, the man behind him is Joe Lieberman, who addressed the crowd in English.  His wife is a survivor, so he had personal reason to be here - and drew loud cheers when he talked about United Jerusalem!
After their talk, hundreds of pink and white balloons were released - it was really a beautiful sight.  And the walk officially began from Gan Sachar to Jaffa Gate.
We walked beside these ladies - again, I'm not sure who they are, but it was good to be together.  In comparison to walks I did in the 60's, this was completely apolitical - so there was no feeling of tension between groups.  Solidarity and connection without anger - a natural high.
 The view in front of me up Bezalel.
The view behind me.  Looks like maybe we were in the middle - who knows!  
 There was music on Ben Yehuda - Hoodie likes to dance.
 Shifra wasn't shy about approaching the mayor for a photo.  As I took the picture, I was able to tell him that his aunt Nikki lived downstairs from me in Florida and that I see her every year when I visit.
 A stop for water outside the Old City walls.  Turns out that Linda knows Shulamit from California, and Shulamit knows Linda's daughter who still lives there well.  I know Shulamit both from the family and professionally.
Another friend, Starr Miller was walking out as we were walking in.  We all have separate individual ties to Starr also.  There are no degrees of separation here.  For my Hollywood friends, you may remember when her son was head of the Youth Groups at Young Israel, and her daughter teaches at a day school there, so the Millers are regular visitors to Hollywood.  And the Millers have been friends of the Greens here for many years, so Starr knew Shifra as a very little girl.
I hope I don't offend anyone by ending with this poster.  We believe that the cures are out there.  It's our job to find them.  May that happen speedily in our day!
A refuah shelemah (complete recovery) to all who need.
Shabbat Shalom.
Rina/Carol/Mom/Bubby

Wednesday, April 25, 2012

All Around Pesach 2012

Our latest attraction in our mayor's drive to draw more tourists to Jerusalem is a mini-city made of ice - by Chinese artists.  It opened before Pesach, as the tourists started to arrive.  I guess it could be impressive.  For me, mostly it was cold!  They have to keep this old train station at -10 Centigrade (14 F).  I went with friends and we wore all our winter clothes - for me that means 4 layers including the winter jacket.  They gave us additional jackets that we put over ours.  I wore gloves, but my hands ached from the cold, and even more so once we were out and I started to thaw.  Below is a copy of the monster slide in Kiryat Yovel.  I wore a corduroy skirt which didn't slide too well.  In case you're coming, they just extended the exhibition until the end of May.
I took the kids to my apt. the day before Pesach to do a project.  They love these art projects, which is not really my strong suit, but I'm learning.  We were making bag puppets of all the plagues to use at the seder the next night.  Their personalities really come across in how they work.  Akiva is very deliberate and a perfectionist.  Ariella rushes ahead with great confidence - she completed 4 of the 10 herself.  Miera wanted my participation in the ones she did.
Ariella's wild beast, and Miera's lice and cattle epidemic.  Akiva doesn't pose - I always have to catch him unaware.
 While we were away, Saul and Shifra finished making their whole kitchen kosher for Pesach,   I'll skip the explanation and photos of our kitchens covered in very heavy duty foil.  This year I hired two yeshiva boys who were able to scrub down and cover my kitchen in about 2.5 hours - worth every shekel!
When I brought the kids back home, everyone was hungry - we could still eat leavened bread, but couldn't have it in the kitchen or really anywhere in the house which has now been completely scrubbed clean.  So what's to do?  Like Jews all over the world, take out is the answer!  Kosher restaurants with chametz make a killing on this one night alone.  We ordered out and Shifra put plastic on the floor.  Here she and Yehuda are sitting in the dairy section where pizza was much enjoyed.
Saul held court over the meat section, where burgers, onion rings and fries never tasted so good!  I started with the pizza and moved on to share a burger with Ariella - probably my first in years, and it was definitely worth going off the "no meat" wagon.
After the house has been thoroughly scrubbed, 10 pieces of bread are held back and hidden about the house.  The head of the household does a search - and only after finding all of them, declares anything that may be somehow still on the premises null and void.  Shifra hides the pieces, and Saul and the kids search.  Shiff doesn't make it easy for them.  I do my own hiding and searching and the funny part is that I always have trouble locating at least one of the pieces.  It's great being old!
The morning before the seder, there are fires all over Jerusalem to burn whatever pieces of chametz we have.  I went to the local Chabad where of course, they made a party of the whole thing with a big bonfire and lots of music.  
Of course, there are no pictures of the seder itself, which was really special this year.  It was Saul and family, and Shifra's 2 younger siblings and their families.  Saul did a great job leading.  Because it was relatively small, the kids participated for the first time.  Saul kept a bowl of candies by his plate and whoever asked a good question, got a candy.  Ariella really learned her stuff this year and starred in the question department.  Her little cousin, Batya so badly wanted one also, and everyone tried to explain that she had to ask a question.  Finally, she asked, "Can I have a candy?"  That's good enough for a 2 year old - and she was happy.  There were also lots of interesting Torah conversations with the adults - and Shifra did a bang up job on the meal, as usual.

We had 4 days between the beginning and ending days that have holiday status.  I slept late every day, turned my work phone off and just really enjoyed being here.  I went with a friend one day to the renovated Israel museum which I haven't explored since I moved here.  It is huge - with some very impressive permanent exhibits and a really spectacular contemporary art section.  My favorite is still the sculpture garden just outside the museum.  They've spread it out over more area with the walkways made of pebbles, which really gives you a workout when walking - so art and exercise too - cool!  This piece below is huge - a couple stories high, reflective in 360 degrees, and top and bottom.
This one wasn't here in the 80"s (my last visit).  It is also huge, with a human figure suggested in the center. I loved discovering it looking through the surrounding trees.
Their most famous piece by Henry Moore.
Another day, this same friend - Linda and I drove south through the Gush communities.  This was an area that was settled by religious Jews who taught themselves how to farm, and just as they were getting the hang of that - the war of Independence broke out and they became the front line defense of Jerusalem.   They then had to become soldiers - most were slaughtered.  Before the war, they sent their children into Jerusalem and those children came back and reestablished the communities, which are now thriving modern suburbs in the mountains and forests just south of Jerusalem.
We stopped at a recreation spot in the forest - a zip line, a ropes course, and some animals.  This is the closest I've come to wildlife here.
In one of the newer developments, Neve Daniel, an architect built this house.  He's into Kabbala and all things circular.  Remember the Jetsons?
Another day, Shifra and her two sisters and their families made a barbeque in a park near me.  The kids, especially Akiva, really miss their cousins who moved from the Old City to Ramot, so this was a special treat to spend time with them.
Yup, that was Uncle Saul in the crawl tunnel.

 The brothers-in-law and good friends, Saul and Gabi (married to Shifra's younger sister, Raizy)


Yehuda has Uncle Barry's boomarang.
 Akiva at the end of a great day - tired and dirty.
 This is actually another day when I took the kids to the park in the Old City.  Ariella demonstrates why girls are required to wear tights!
She always finds an alternative way to do things!
She goes back and forth easily now.  Think she's a tomboy?
And back at the house, Hoody engaged in his favorite activity - eating.  He gets up on hands and knees, and moves them all, but hasn't coordinated them into a real crawl yet.  The other night, he rolled himself under the table and found a dropped baked potato - boy, was he happy!
Ariella feeding him bits of hamburger.  He has no teeth, but he's been chewing for a long time, so eats pretty much everything.
Pesach is my very favorite holiday - even with and maybe because of all the preparation.  It's the beginning of us as a Jewish people on our way to the promised land - and the slavery to freedom theme really touches me - makes me so grateful to be alive and where I am spiritually and physically.  This year was especially moving in that way - I soooo did not want it to end!

The best thing about it ending is that it is WARM!!!!!  No more winter - that goes pretty far with me!
Lots of love,
Rina